Daddy Brian

Daddy Brian (He / Him) is a 39-year-old kinky guy, educator and community leader who proudly serves as the Midwest Handler 2024. A native Texan, he has called Oklahoma City home for the past eight years and has become a familiar face within the local leather and kink communities. His journey through the lifestyle has led him to embrace many roles including Handler, Dominant (who happily switches for the right person), Bootblack, caregiver, pet and Daddy. Through each of these identities, he brings a deep passion for connection, service and personal growth.

Brian serves as Co-Chair and Handler Board Member for PAC-OK (Paws and Claws Oklahoma), Education Coordinator for OKC Kink Weekend and the Route 66 Leather Contests, and Vice President of Titans of the Midwest. Education is at the heart of everything he does, both within the lifestyle and in his professional life. Whether he is teaching classes on cigars, temperature play, bootblacking, bondage, biting, primal play or impact, Brian is dedicated to creating engaging learning experiences that help others build confidence and expand their skills. He is also a talented leathercrafter and stitcher who enjoys sharing his knowledge of sewing and craftsmanship with others.

A strong advocate for handler visibility, Brian works to highlight the important role handlers play within the community and to ensure they are seen and understood. When he is not teaching, volunteering or crafting, you can often find him curled up with a nice boy, relaxing in a pet pile or spending a quiet evening watching cartoons with a little patch.

Through his leadership, humor and dedication to education, Daddy Brian continues to leave a lasting impact on the communities he serves.